Venus, Mars, the Moon and your Ascendant: your love signature, where it actually falls in the sky.
Attentive, refined, understated: you show love by noticing the small things and getting them right.
You love through acts of care and quiet attention.
You instinctively seek love through friendship and shared ideals: love that begins as friendship.
Venus retrograde: you love a little against the grain, questioning romantic norms and arriving at intimacy on your own timeline.
What loving you is like.
Loving you means being cared for in the details. You love through usefulness, through noticing, through the quiet acts that show you were paying attention. You pursue with total focus, a desire that goes underground and works the long game, intense enough to frighten the people who only meant to flirt. In you, love and desire run on separate tracks, neither fighting nor fused, which means how you love and how you want can feel like two different people sharing one heart.
Asteria · VenusVenus in Virgo
How you love, what you find beautiful, and the risk that comes with your style of attachment.
You love through acts of care and quiet attention. Venus in Virgo wants to be useful to the people you love, showing affection through the practical and the precise rather than the grand. You notice everything and you serve devotedly. What you find beautiful is competence, decency, and the small thoughtful thing. The risk is criticism, holding love to an impossible standard, so the work is accepting the person rather than improving them.
Asteria · MarsMars in Scorpio
How you want, chase, and assert heat in relationship.
You pursue intensely and totally. Mars is powerful in Scorpio, so desire runs deep, focused, and all-consuming. You want completely, with a magnetic, controlled intensity, and you do not do casual well. The drive is profound and unrelenting. The growth is in trusting, in not letting the depth of your wanting curdle into control or obsession.
Asteria · the 7thAries on the 7th house
The partner you draw and the lesson partnership keeps teaching.
You draw bold, direct, self-defined partners, people who know what they want and go after it. The pattern is a partner who brings initiative and fire, balancing whatever in you holds back. The lesson is learning to assert as clearly as they do.
Love · Sydney McLaughlin
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