Venus, Mars, the Moon and your Ascendant: your love signature, where it actually falls in the sky.
Attentive, refined, understated: you show love by noticing the small things and getting them right.
You love through acts of care and quiet attention.
You instinctively seek love through intimacy and merging: love that goes all the way down.
What loving you is like.
Loving you means being cared for in the details. You love through usefulness, through noticing, through the quiet acts that show you were paying attention. You pursue through merging and imagination, a desire that blurs into devotion, drawn to the dream of someone as much as the person. In you, love and desire pull in opposite directions. What attracts you and what sustains you sit across the table from each other, two needs that have to learn to negotiate.
Asteria · VenusVenus in Virgo
How you love, what you find beautiful, and the risk that comes with your style of attachment.
You love through acts of care and quiet attention. Venus in Virgo wants to be useful to the people you love, showing affection through the practical and the precise rather than the grand. You notice everything and you serve devotedly. What you find beautiful is competence, decency, and the small thoughtful thing. The risk is criticism, holding love to an impossible standard, so the work is accepting the person rather than improving them.
Asteria · MarsMars in Pisces
How you want, chase, and assert heat in relationship.
You pursue softly and intuitively. Mars in Pisces wants through feeling and merging, expressing desire gently, romantically, sometimes indirectly. Your energy is dreamy and responsive, strongest when it flows rather than forces. The drive is tender and elusive. The growth is in directness and follow-through, in giving your desire a clear shape.
Asteria · the 7thCancer on the 7th house
The partner you draw and the lesson partnership keeps teaching.
You draw tender, nurturing, protective partners, people who want to care for you and build a home. The pattern is a partner who brings emotional depth and shelter. The lesson is receiving care without losing yourself in being cared for.
Love · Carrie Fisher
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