Venus, Mars, the Moon and your Ascendant: your love signature, where it actually falls in the sky.
Original, friendly, a little detached: you connect mind-first, friendship before romance.
You love as a friend first and on your own terms.
You instinctively seek love through home, family and emotional roots: love that feels safe.
Venus retrograde: you love a little against the grain, questioning romantic norms and arriving at intimacy on your own timeline.
What loving you is like.
Loving you means being a friend first and owned never. You love through freedom and the meeting of minds, and you flee the moment love starts to feel like a cage. You pursue through merging and imagination, a desire that blurs into devotion, drawn to the dream of someone as much as the person. In you, love and desire run on separate tracks, neither fighting nor fused, which means how you love and how you want can feel like two different people sharing one heart.
Asteria · VenusVenus in Aquarius
How you love, what you find beautiful, and the risk that comes with your style of attachment.
You love as a friend first and on your own terms. Venus in Aquarius wants independence inside connection, a meeting of minds, a love that respects your need for space and your refusal to do it the usual way. You are loyal but detached, intimate at a slight remove. What you find beautiful is originality and a free spirit. The risk is too much distance, so the work is letting yourself be close as well as free.
Asteria · MarsMars in Pisces
How you want, chase, and assert heat in relationship.
You pursue softly and intuitively. Mars in Pisces wants through feeling and merging, expressing desire gently, romantically, sometimes indirectly. Your energy is dreamy and responsive, strongest when it flows rather than forces. The drive is tender and elusive. The growth is in directness and follow-through, in giving your desire a clear shape.
Asteria · the 7thAries on the 7th house
The partner you draw and the lesson partnership keeps teaching.
You draw bold, direct, self-defined partners, people who know what they want and go after it. The pattern is a partner who brings initiative and fire, balancing whatever in you holds back. The lesson is learning to assert as clearly as they do.
Love · Audre Lorde
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