Venus, Mars, the Moon and your Ascendant: your love signature, where it actually falls in the sky.
Quick, playful, verbal: you flirt with words, curiosity and a light, bright back-and-forth.
You love through the mind first.
You instinctively seek love through friendship and shared ideals: love that begins as friendship.
Venus retrograde: you love a little against the grain, questioning romantic norms and arriving at intimacy on your own timeline.
What loving you is like.
Loving you means never being bored. You love through words and curiosity, drawn to the mind that can keep up and the conversation that does not end. You pursue through merging and imagination, a desire that blurs into devotion, drawn to the dream of someone as much as the person. In you, love and desire run on separate tracks, neither fighting nor fused, which means how you love and how you want can feel like two different people sharing one heart.
Asteria · VenusVenus in Gemini
How you love, what you find beautiful, and the risk that comes with your style of attachment.
You love through the mind first. Venus in Gemini wants conversation, wit, curiosity, someone who can keep up and keep you interested. You connect through words and ideas, and you need variety and stimulation more than most. What you find beautiful is a quick mind and a good talker. The risk is staying at the surface, in flirtation and banter, so the work is letting the connection go as deep as it is clever.
Asteria · MarsMars in Pisces
How you want, chase, and assert heat in relationship.
You pursue softly and intuitively. Mars in Pisces wants through feeling and merging, expressing desire gently, romantically, sometimes indirectly. Your energy is dreamy and responsive, strongest when it flows rather than forces. The drive is tender and elusive. The growth is in directness and follow-through, in giving your desire a clear shape.
Asteria · the 7thAquarius on the 7th house
The partner you draw and the lesson partnership keeps teaching.
You draw independent, original, freedom-loving partners, people who keep their own orbit. The pattern is a partner who brings space and individuality. The lesson is intimacy across that independence, closeness that does not require sameness.
Love · Anthony Bourdain
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